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Being too nice?

Miner9823

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It is a virtue to be nice to as many people as possible when living in this world. However, the attitudes and mind-sets of people around the world differ, meaning how thorough one must be when they choose the people they decide to be nice to. Always understand the difference between someone who will use your emotions and kindness as a resource between someone who values their relationships and bonds with you. Never put your efforts in vain for those who will turn around and desert you (reference intended), because you will only be left robbed of your dignity. Take your stand and draw your line, and only let those who are worthwhile be chosen for your care. c:
 

BedIntruder

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I agree with this statement 100%. Us Mod's receive lots of disrespect reports, and where does that get you? Either banned or muted.

I've never seen a report of someone being too nice; I don't think being mean gets you anywhere. cc: BedIntruder
Being mean means you can stand up for yourself, instead of basically being a pushover.
 

ZombieChick

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People can't hate you if you're nice to everyone. Also, being nice to people can make their day 10x better while making you feel better about yourself as well. c:
 

LittleKisses

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I don't see anything wrong with being "too nice", as long as it's genuine and not fake. I've been criticized many times for being "too nice" but idc, that's me. Just be aware of those that take advantage of good natures and learn to say no c:
 

Beardy

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People can't hate you if you're nice to everyone. Also, being nice to people can make their day 10x better while making you feel better about yourself as well. c:
I've actually come to find that optimists come off as highly irritating. It's good to be nice, but being nice excessively can be annoying and result in hatred if they happen to be an extremist.
 

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