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My brother has passed

ProfessorRetro

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I know even if the whole world were to say "I understand your pain, I'm sorry" I know it does nothing. I've had close friends commit suicide, and knowing I was the last ever person to talk to one of them... it's just. It won't do anything. Nothing will ever bring them back. It's terrible. One person from your life is gone forever. They may be in your memories but they're gone. The term dead seems simple, but I just, can't really explain it. The emotions that go on inside of you. There's nothing you can do but accept he's gone, but don't do that if you do listen to me. Act like he's still there. Fix his bed. Clean his room. Pretend you're walking with him to the park. You'll remember him better, and it will bring you alot of pain, but it still reminds you of them, and if they are anywhere in a heaven, they'll know how much you miss them. I still go to my friends house and shoot some pucks in the basement. He used to play the goalie, so I miss some shots sometimes just to come as close as I can to the feeling it was being with him. Don't hide your emotions. Let them go. There will be a sea of them within you, and unleash them in waves. No one can or will judge you. Your brother will live forever in your memories. And those will be with you forever.
 

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I know even if the whole world were to say "I understand your pain, I'm sorry" I know it does nothing. I've had close friends commit suicide, and knowing I was the last ever person to talk to one of them... it's just. It won't do anything. Nothing will ever bring them back. It's terrible. One person from your life is gone forever. They may be in your memories but they're gone. The term dead seems simple, but I just, can't really explain it. The emotions that go on inside of you. There's nothing you can do but accept he's gone, but don't do that if you do listen to me. Act like he's still there. Fix his bed. Clean his room. Pretend you're walking with him to the park. You'll remember him better, and it will bring you alot of pain, but it still reminds you of them, and if they are anywhere in a heaven, they'll know how much you miss them. I still go to my friends house and shoot some pucks in the basement. He used to play the goalie, so I miss some shots sometimes just to come as close as I can to the feeling it was being with him. Don't hide your emotions. Let them go. There will be a sea of them within you, and unleash them in waves. No one can or will judge you. Your brother will live forever in your memories. And those will be with you forever.
So emotional ;_;
 

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Every time one of these threads are made, it's always the brother ;-;
 

PROSKILLZ2

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Alright, sorry for my first comment.

Right, I've never experience dead to my family members, only to my grandfather which sadly died when I was younger. However, even though my dad is not dead, he is dead for me. He abandoned me when younger, only having my dear mother's presence. In all seriousness, I can tell you it gets better. "Don't cry because its over, cry because it happened" —Dr.Seuss. Just get out and cry out loud. Express yourself, be yourself and remember what made your brother so special. Brighter days, they come, they go. Look for them.

Hope you're feeling better now, and remember you have your friends, family, even randoms on the internet to support you, help you, make you feel better.
I literally actualy thought at first his brother Passed a TEST or exam.
 

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you believe this?
This:
I know even if the whole world were to say "I understand your pain, I'm sorry" I know it does nothing. I've had close friends commit suicide, and knowing I was the last ever person to talk to one of them... it's just. It won't do anything. Nothing will ever bring them back. It's terrible. One person from your life is gone forever. They may be in your memories but they're gone. The term dead seems simple, but I just, can't really explain it. The emotions that go on inside of you. There's nothing you can do but accept he's gone, but don't do that if you do listen to me. Act like he's still there. Fix his bed. Clean his room. Pretend you're walking with him to the park. You'll remember him better, and it will bring you alot of pain, but it still reminds you of them, and if they are anywhere in a heaven, they'll know how much you miss them. I still go to my friends house and shoot some pucks in the basement. He used to play the goalie, so I miss some shots sometimes just to come as close as I can to the feeling it was being with him. Don't hide your emotions. Let them go. There will be a sea of them within you, and unleash them in waves. No one can or will judge you. Your brother will live forever in your memories. And those will be with you forever.
is emotional.
 

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I find this so hard to believe if your brother actually died you wouldn't share it with a bunch of randys on the internet. Up even if it is true, I feel like I'm speaking the thoughts of most people by saying I don't really need to know. I'm not saying I don't care, if your brother died I'm sorry, but I still would rather not be reading stuff like this on minecraft forums.
 

JennoKoala

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I find this so hard to believe if your brother actually died you wouldn't share it with a bunch of randys on the internet.
People share their grief in various ways and we need to respect that. We also, as a community, need to forget the last escapade that occurred with a thread like this. I am bewildered at the fact that some members of the community cannot just simply ignore a thread like this or leave a heart-warming "I'm sorry for your loss" comment. I understand why you prejudice threads like this but isn't it human instinct to suddenly feel bad about these topics?

Anyhow, I'm sorry for your loss.
 

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